Several days ago a family member was part of an ancient marriage service where the bride and groom are crowned to be King and Queen of their newly established family. The service is actually referred to as the Mystery of Crowning.

The ‘crowns’ were wreaths made from the myrtle plant. These fragrant crowns of fresh green myrtle leaves are a symbol of the continuity of life, and in some traditions also of prosperity and success in life. Traditionally, the wreaths are of the same size, symbolizing oneness and respect for each other.

It was a picture perfect wedding day. The rain clouds had spent several days doing what rain clouds do best – watering the thirsty earth while raining on any parade out there. On this day the sun shone forth gloriously, accompanied by a gentle breeze.

The church was fragrant with flowers. An aunt lovingly shared beautiful tulips, peonies, columbine, irises, anenome, red and white bleeding heart, primroses of every kind, grape hyacinth, daisies, blue bells, lily of the valley and the lovely blue forget-me-not. Large vases of roses added to the picturesque setting of joy and love.

Lovely strains from the violin and viola wafted through the air as the church was filled with loving family and friends, young and old, who had gathered to support and witness the public declaration of commitment and blessing. The singing offered by dear friends throughout the service added to the beauty and solemnity of the moment.

At a certain point in the service the couple shared a common cup of wine, symbolic of the mutual sharing of every aspect of their future life.

The beautifully attired bridesmaids and handsome groomsmen, the adorable ring bearer and flower girls – all complemented the picture of the proud groom and the radiant bride.

If you are looking for something to add to the love and mutual respect a husband and wife have for each other, contact us for information on natural family planning. Share the good memories again and again, and look for new ways to build up your ‘couple-ness.’ NFP has enhanced many a relationship with confidence, deeper commitment, and shared responsibilities.

Serena offers a dynamic approach presented by qualified volunteer teacher-couples. We hope to help you build a relationship that can be even more than ‘picture perfect.’

Contact us for our next class on July 14, 2008.